Law of Attraction – Why We May Be Attracting What We Don’t Prefer

We often hear that we attract what we want and so one might ask why am I getting what I really DON’T want?  Why are these things that I don’t prefer happening to me?  The not so nice answer, the one we would prefer not to hear is that we are attracting these things, that we are each responsible for what takes place for us.

The Law of Attraction is also the Law of Opposites.  We can easily see this in physics – for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.  So if you push physically against another person who does not want to move each of you will expend the same amount of energy to remain in the same place until one gives way.  The same is true with emotional prowess.   A person who wishes to dominate another can do so with emotional pushes.  As long as the other resists the emotional tension they will be deadlocked until one weakens.

If you are attracting something you do not want you are energetically pushing against it or pulling at getting it.  The more you push at something the more it pushes back.  So if you’re saying I don’t want, I don’t want, I don’t want…that is the same as trying to push it away.  In the same way you might be saying I want, or I would like, yes I really hope to have… which is pulling or grasping at and the more you pull on someone the more he’ll pull away and you’re into a tug-o-war.

So if you’re holding either of those energies you will continue to attract the push/pull.  In other words you are attracting the resistance of getting that which you want to attract.  You CAN get what you want by pushing or pulling for it.  You’ll just have to be stronger than the resistance but eventually you will exhaust your energy reserves and you won’t be able to maintain the having of it.

So how to attract what is wanted without pushing and pulling (which are energies that attract the opposite of what you want and in using those energies you deplete your own energy) is the question.  You want to be in an energy that attracts the desire.  For example you may want to attract wealth in the form of money.  The simple answer is to BE wealthy.  In other words act AS IF you are wealthy, feel wealthy and think wealthy thoughts.  Sounds simple and it is but it is not necessarily easy to BE in the energy of wealthy.  You may have beliefs around the having of money or about people that have money or your deserving to have money or what people will think of you if you have money or that money is dirty or evil, etc.

Beliefs are only one of the things that can block us from being in the energy of attracting what we want.  In order to BE in the energy of your desires you need to be aware of your blocks to being there and as you clear those blocks and then come into the energy of being wealthy (eg) you will begin to attract wealth.

It is important to clean, clear and heal oneself of energies that block us from our true Self.  First you must be aware of what is blocking you from attracting what you desire.  Then it will be possible to do the work of cleaning, clearing and healing.

In The Mastery of Awareness course you will begin to see yourself and your world with more clarity so that you can then begin the healing and clearing work.

Love and Light,



About Coach Mary

Mary is a Master Maven Coach (Maven Method™) - one of the deepest reaching and most effective coaching methods at present and is also trained in the Golden Flow™ Method of releasing blocks and flowing with life. She has completed the Mastery of Awareness and Transformation courses with Kris and Kalyn Raphael, certified personal growth guides from the don Miguel Ruiz lineage (world renowned author of The Four Agreements). Mary’s life experience has exposed her to many varied careers, many joys and some deeply painful events. She has released and healed the crushing grief from the death of her son to rediscover the love and joy of life. All have led to an inner awakening and a drive to know her Self deeply and to live life fully, consciously and with Intent. Among her dreams is to guide and support others in their journey through self-awareness and transformation.
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2 Responses to Law of Attraction – Why We May Be Attracting What We Don’t Prefer

  1. troy says:

    Great stuff Mary! Thank you for sharing the love and light!

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